Can meetings on a sailboat create lasting friendships?

Arthur and Blue Hour in Uig, Isle of Skye, Scotland

Cruising and long sailboat trips are an opportunity to meet countless people. Friendships are quickly made on the boat, mutual aid being the norm on the pontoons around the world. The boats often follow the same routes. We cross paths in one anchorage and then another. So many opportunities to establish links, but are they long-lasting?

Generally, friendships are created quickly between crews, but are just as quickly undone once they leave each other. Sometimes they last for a while, but fade after the inevitable return to shore. However, some of these encounters create strong and lasting friendships.

L'équipage canadien de Blue Hour
The Canadian crew of Blue Hour

An unexpected encounter

During our Atlantic tour, six years ago, we met two Canadian sailboats in Greenland. This is not the place where we thought we would meet people. The most extraordinary thing was that these two sailboats were sailing with young children on board, like us! The trip up the East coast of Greenland with these crews was an unforgettable experience.

Rencontre inattendue au Groenland avec deux voiliers canadiens
Unexpected encounter in Greenland with two Canadian sailboats

We were surprised to discover that one of these boats, Blue Hour, was sailing this summer in Norway, and was returning to Scotland to leave the boat in winter. It was quite inconceivable to sail in the same waters and not find ourselves there! The wind played many tricks on us, for us who were going up to meet them and for them who were coming down from Norway against the south-westerly winds.

Arthur et Blue Hour dans les Hébrides extérieures
Arthur and Blue Hour in the Outer Hebrides

A missed appointment in the north of Scotland

While we were in Loch Nedd, near the northwestern tip of Scotland, they were waiting in Orkney for an opportunity to join us. However, as the days passed without better weather, Blue Hour reluctantly decided to take the Caledonian Canal. This last one crosses Scotland from East to West, from Inverness to Fort William, far South from our positionâ?¦

And Arthur is blocked by the wind, without possibility to go down. We managed to reach the loch Ewe, where we stayed for a week, suffering the gusts. Blue Hour, on its side, used the canal locks and started to sail up the West coast to meet us. Nevertheless, their sailboat must be near Glasgow at the end of the month, they cannot afford to stay stuck in the North.

Balade à terre sur l'île de Canna, Ecosse
Shore excursion on the island of Canna, Scotland

An exceptional reunion

Finally, the wind weakens, turns enough to offer us a sailing window! We meet on the North-Western tip of Skye, with the idea of sailing together to the Outer Hebrides. The reunion is extraordinary, at the foot of a ruined castle in a superb anchorage and by a beautiful lull.

Arthur et Blue Hour au mouillage de Duntulm Castle, Skye, Ecosse
Arthur and Blue Hour at Duntulm Castle, Skye, Scotland

In fact, sailing friendships are sometimes as solid as the mooring lines that hold our two sailboats together. The sailings spent together, the joys and sometimes the difficulties experienced together, make them unalterable.

Arthur et Blue Hour à couple dans les Ascrib Islands, Ecosse
Arthur and Blue Hour as a couple in the Ascrib Islands, Scotland
Stories
1 Arthur: a DALU 47 prepared to go sailing in the ice with the whales!
Arthur: a DALU 47 prepared to go sailing in the ice with the whales!
2 Is it a good idea to renovate your boat while living on board with your family?
Is it a good idea to renovate your boat while living on board with your family?
3 First navigation after a long break: all the mistakes we made
First navigation after a long break: all the mistakes we made
4 Gulf of Morbihan, sunny stopover in Le Bono for a little visit to Moitessier !
Gulf of Morbihan, sunny stopover in Le Bono for a little visit to Moitessier !
5 Off-season sailing pleasures in the islands of Southern Brittany
Off-season sailing pleasures in the islands of Southern Brittany
6 Stopover in Concarneau : our sailboat almost drowns in fresh water !
Stopover in Concarneau : our sailboat almost drowns in fresh water !
7 On our way to Sein, we discover and report to the CROSS an object drifting
On our way to Sein, we discover and report to the CROSS an object drifting
8 School by boat : The administration catches up with us for a forced stopover in Morgat
School by boat : The administration catches up with us for a forced stopover in Morgat
9 Stopover in Brest : Unexpected encounter and delicate maneuver in the castle port
Stopover in Brest : Unexpected encounter and delicate maneuver in the castle port
10 Sailing for more than 24 hours on a sailboat, the essential preparations
Sailing for more than 24 hours on a sailboat, the essential preparations
11 On our way to the Scilly Islands, our sailboat is diverted by the military
On our way to the Scilly Islands, our sailboat is diverted by the military
12 Scilly in the colors of the Queen of England's jubilee for the stopover of Arthur
Scilly in the colors of the Queen of England's jubilee for the stopover of Arthur
13 Scilly-Ireland crossing, a perfect navigation in the company of dolphins
Scilly-Ireland crossing, a perfect navigation in the company of dolphins
14 A trip up the east coast of Ireland in a few anchorages and visits
A trip up the east coast of Ireland in a few anchorages and visits
15 Sailing from Gigha to Jura: everything ends well, despite a recalcitrant windlass!
Sailing from Gigha to Jura: everything ends well, despite a recalcitrant windlass!
16 Recalcitrant windlass: a delicate repair to be done at anchor
Recalcitrant windlass: a delicate repair to be done at anchor
17 A boating accident that ends with a helicopter rescue
A boating accident that ends with a helicopter rescue
18 A typical Scottish navigation: wind shifts and very disturbed weather!
A typical Scottish navigation: wind shifts and very disturbed weather!
19 Can meetings on a sailboat create lasting friendships?
Can meetings on a sailboat create lasting friendships?
20 Wintering on board: where to find the right stopover to spend the winter?
Wintering on board: where to find the right stopover to spend the winter?
21 Petole off the coast of Ireland: Arthur praises slow sailing
Petole off the coast of Ireland: Arthur praises slow sailing
22 North of Ireland: a current that can prove trapping...
North of Ireland: a current that can prove trapping...
23 Back to school on a boat: the ups and downs of home schooling
Back to school on a boat: the ups and downs of home schooling
24 One year of life aboard Arthur: first assessment of life on a sailboat as a family
One year of life aboard Arthur: first assessment of life on a sailboat as a family
25 6 months of sailing: Material assessment of a season on a boat
6 months of sailing: Material assessment of a season on a boat
More articles on the theme